The scoop on these creatures we call men!

Hmm, I should be writing a paper, doing a lab, memorizing lines from Othello and getting ready for a speech. All of these are due Friday and I want to go to a free bowling night tomorrow for the students at the college, but I just have to blog. I can't leave y'all out!

Well my lovely question/rant for today is what is the deal with guys today? I mean seriously, do they not get the hints or are they just pretending.

Example numbero uno: "Mr. Crab" should have been able to tell I liked him for months. I mean we act like we like each other and things have came close to being more, but in the end he always runs back to his gf and then he acts like he likes my friends when they come around also and I feel as thought there is no, absolutely NO point in trying with him anymore.

Example numbero dos: "Mr. High School Musical" acted very interested when we first met and we talked often, only to find out he had a gf. He still continued to talk and flirt but was a decent man and didn't do anything a boy with a gf shouldn't have. I know his gf and decided a long time ago to just stop talking to him so that I didn't get feelings for him more than I already did, because well I fall easy.(in other words if numbero uno or numbero dos asked me out I would say yes without a doubt because I'm that caught up) Anyways, we see each other around campus often, like today we saw each other 3 or 4 times and he always said hey and gave me that cute smile with them pretty blue eyes. Unfortunately I jut say hey and smile back and keep walking because I do not want to come between him and his gf and I know he doesn't like me like that or I atleast assume it. And then I found out this afternoon that the reason I hadn't really been hearing from him this semester is because he moved in with his gf. Another one bites the dust.

Example numbero tres: "Mr. Java" acts like he likes me without a doubt and people even asked me if we dated and why we wasnt dating anymore and all kinds of stuff when I went to parties. He likes to play around and wrestle and have a good time with me and I enjoy it, but sometimes I get scared that he only is after one thing and I run so that he has no reason to only try to talk to me for that reason. I want a bf not a friends with benefits and sometimes I'm scared that's all he's aiming for because of his friends. Honestly I think he really does like me, but I just don't know what to do.

And then theres always the guys that actually do like me and I either don't like them or I run.

a. I had a cute, nicely built guy that liked me, but he is really short and friends with a lot of people I don't like, so I told him I was caught up on someone else (example numbero uno above) and he left me alone.

b. Then theres always random guys trying to hollar at me and talk to me and I just keep walking and purposely avoid them, because well they are either too immature or not what I'm looking for. For instance, today Morgan and me were playing tennis and we walked by this set of 4 really loud guys and went to the court farthest away from them and even got where the baseball players(we don't like being where they can see us, because we look a mess "trying" to play) could see us, just because we didn't want to be near them. About 45 minutes into playing the same boys came and got into the court that joins the one we were in. They acted VERY immature and loud and said a lot of cuss words just trying to look cool and get our attention. It was quite annoying and we ended up calling it quits. As we were leaving they asked us to play a double with them but we declined nicely. I couldn't handle anymore.

So, WHY oh WHY do guys have to either be off the market, blind, insensitive, jerks, immature, or just not what a girl is looking for? I want a good guy that I can have a good time with and love. He doesnt have to be my future husband, because by all means dating surely doesn't always come with marriage, but I would love to have someone to atleast go on a date with. Guys now days don't even do that.

So tell me this ladies, how do you work it and attract the right type of guys? I need to know the tricks and all of the down low. Fill me in on the scoop, pretty pretty please!!!