Wednesday, March 9, 2011

The plan He has for me!

I have been praying and praying that one day soon I will meet a good man. I pray for my future husband-to-be everyday.

I've been single for a whole year, by choice. I had experienced so many bad guys and the last one had completely done it for me for a while. I decided that I would take a break from dating and try to figure out me and what I wanted!

I ended up learning a lot about myself and what I wanted. I learned that I wanted a good man. I wanted a man that understood me. A man that would allow me enough space to have girls nights every now and then and to also have time with my mom. I need a man to understand the importance of my family. I need a man to trust me and I need to trust him back. I need a caring, funny, and loving man. I need a Godly man atleast someone who is willing to grow closer to God with me. I want someone to accept me for me and not want me to change. What you see is what you get! I'm not the prettiest, smallest, skinniest, tallest, and I'm definately not tan at all, but I want to be accepted for these things. I don't want to always feel like I need to become something I'm not to keep my man. I need this man to understand that I am going to school to become something of myself and I also need my man to not base a relationship off of sex. Sex does not exual a relationship and that is something so many people forget while dating. Is all of this so hard to ask for?

Now that I'm ready to start looking again, I've learned that I'm not the only one who has been worrying about my love life. Apparently 3 different coworkers of my moms including her boss have asked her in the past two weeks if I dated. Keep in mind this is the same college that I go to and two of these were my teachers in past semesters. And if that's not bad enough my 12 year old niece loves to ask me everytime she calls if I am dating anyone yet and informs me that I am getting old and need to hurry up and get married.

I promise I am in no rush, but finding my someone would be amazing! I will just keep praying for my special someone because I know God has a plan for me and when the time is right he will put the right person in my life! :)

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